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Introverted
children are
often misunderstood,
even by their
parents, who
worry about
them. Engaged
by their interior
world, they’re
often regarded
as aloof.
Easily overwhelmed
by too much
stimulation,
they can be
seen as unmotivated.
Content with
just one or
two close
friends, they
may be perceived
as unpopular.
Parents fret
that they
are unhappy
and maladjusted.
But the truth
is quite different:
Introverted
children are
creative problem
solvers. Introverted
children love
to learn.
Introverted
children have
a high EQ
(emotional
IQ) and are
in touch with
their feelings.
They take
time to stop
and smell
the roses,
and they enjoy
their own
company. They
are dependable,
persistent,
flexible,
and lack vanity.
How
can parents
help their
introverted
children discover
and cultivate
these wonderful
gifts? Help
is here. Written
by Dr. Marti
Olsen Laney,
author of
The Introvert
Advantage
with 74,000
copies in
print, The
Hidden Gifts
of the Introverted
Child fully
explains introversion
as a hardwired
temperament,
not a disability,
and tells
just what
parents need
to do to help
their child
become the
person he
or she is
meant to be—and
succeed in
an extroverted
world. Beginning
with a 30-question
quiz that
places a child
on the introvert/extrovert
continuum,
The Hidden
Gifts shows
parents how
to foster
a climate
that allows
introverted
kids to discover
their inner
strengths;
schedule ways
for a very
young innie
to recharge
those batteries
and teach
an older child
to do it for
him- or herself;
create a harmonious
household
with siblings,
and parents,
of different
temperaments;
help innies
find success
at school,
sports, parties,
and other
group activities.
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